Wahoooo San Francisco here we come.. dang this i think will be the first long drive I'm gonna do with apple after so many freaking years..wahooo... i don't think we ever did a long drive huh... but it's ok i drove to the airport and back the other day... and it was good... sabi nga ni apple kalmado na siyang matulog sa biyahe hahaha... hay excited na ko... wahooo... makakapag-clubbing na ko sa san francisco wahooo... hahaha... uhm hindi naman halatang repressed ako d ba hahahahaha... wahooo...
Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Monday, June 27, 2005
yes we need one tins..
yes to your comment.. let me know when you guys want to go out.. tequila and margarita in hand.. i live what 15 blocks away...i can go home in the morning hahaha... thanks tins..
thankful part 2 will be on the way soon.. heehe... see you girls..
Read, Learn, and Put into good use
I think i'm making up for the time this blog thing came out and I didn't grab onto it hehehe... sabi nga ni marvin ako lang ung kilala niyang every 5 mintus may update sa blog... sorry ka na lang i'm inspired hahaha...anyway so here goes...
I haven't read anything and I'm just gonna comment along the way...
Read, Learn, and Put into good use.
Girls must be treated this way...
1. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot.
2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a
second.
---yeah we appreciate even the smallest stuff..
3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
---is sweet when you just have nothing to do.. and you just want to kiss her...
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
---this would be sweet...
5 . Always tell her how beautiful she is, no matter
what she's wearing.
---it pays to be truthful too.. tell her if something is not ok or looks bad...
6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her
how much she means to you.
---yeah this works...makes you feel like he's gonna be there to protect you even if they can't fix whatever it is.. this'll work for me...
7 . Recognize the small things . . . THEY USUALLY MEAN THE MOST!
---i agree
8 . Call her baby.
---makes me feel special..and that i belong
9 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
---he has a good voice... just doesn't put it to good use when it counts...
10 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
---i think this should come first..if you want her to become your girl...
11 . Write her notes. {she loves them}
---yeah i wonder where this has gone to after a few months into the relationship.. small notes count too..
12 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
---yeah it sucks that you don't remember to introduce her...
13 . Play with her hair.
---this is nice..
14 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
---not too rough ok but this is fun...
15 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
---yeah talking helps alot..
16 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
---just try to see if they are amused or not hehehe...
17 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her.
---aww how sweet..
18 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
19 . Carve your names into a tree.
---tree killer hahhaa.. nah just joking...
20 . If she's mad at you, apologize because SHE is always right.
---not that we are always right but you guys tend to make things bigger by not talking and not apologizing in the first place or telling us what we did wrong or stuff like that...
21 . CUDDLE.
22 . Bring her flowers just because.
---yeah try to do this once in a while...
23 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
24 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
25 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
26 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
27 . Kiss her in the rain.
28 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.
Girls - Repost if you think its true
Guys - Repost if you would treat a girl like this
well there you go.. i hope i got at least half...sigh..
why friends disappoint - old post on hi5
I was browsing on yahoo last friday... i tried to find WHY FRIENDS DISAPPOINT YOU... and lo and behold the internet had it... I saw this blog from a girl named Hani Selamat from Indonesia... let me paste it here
June 09, 2002
What Friends are For
Sometimes, on hard days, when friends disappoint, I
forget why I have friends.
Then, one single friend lifts me up from despair, and I
remember why I chose to have lots of friends, rather than
one sole best friend. I pray to God that I never forget that
reason for so long that I would actually start dumping
friends left and right.
Friends disappoint because they're human. I have no
business expecting friends to be perfect. That is why I
chose to have lots of friends, so that when one friend is
being temporarily, disappointingly human, there are
always other friends I can turn to, that temporarily are
super-human.
To all my friends, I ask you to forgive me for all my nasty
thoughts of any of you, even though you have no clue
what nasty thoughts I've been thinking. Chalk it up to pre-
menstrual syndrome. I love you guys just the way you
are, so you guys just be who you gotta be. I'll play to
your strengths and cover your weaknesses, okay?
At least when I'm not being temporarily, disappointingly
human myself....
Posted by HANI at June 9, 2002 12:49 AM
With this I was thinking... yes friends are human and yes I dropped few friends here and there and yes if you're not on my list then you're not my friend haha...(fake laugh)
kidding aside... It kept me thinking... that yeah this is the reason why I have lots of friends and getting rid of some can be sometimes mind churning but when you're over it then you're over it... I mean I'm not wherever they are... they easily forgot what happened and I can easily forget the years we had together too... we win some we lose some... it's just a pity that sometimes the person you think knows you most knows nothing about you....they think that not telling you what happened will make it better, that it won't make you mad... that telling you last wouldn't make you more mad than if they told you about it in the first place... that trying to ask you if they can do something but if you dont want to do it they wont do it would make you feel better about it... that helping the last person they'd expect you to help wouldn't hurt you.. that not thinking about what they do wouldn't hurt... that asking for something you'd rather forget not hurt.... that them talking behind your back and deciding that not talking to you would be better wouldnt' hurt... that them not caring wouldn't hurt... I did't hurt anyone by not talking to them coz sometimes I think I should feel the hurt too... I'm done being the perfect friend... the bigger man... the better person... I'm just me and I just hate you right now... nothing can make it better... nothing you do will make things come back...
I will remember and I will not forget... time will pass and it will soften the blow... sometimes I will think of you.. sometimes I will think of the times we had.. of the friendship that was past... but that will be it... that will be only time I will remember you fondly...
Sometimes I wonder why there are people like you, why there are people who tear other people down... why you don't think what you can do to me...
It's a good thing I have other friends... it's a good thing I can make friends... it's a good thing that not everyone understands but some try to think... try to be sensitive and try to be perceptive... thank God for friends that know how to be friends....
Seasons of love-Rent
525600 minutes.
525600 moments so dear.
525600 minutes.
how do
you measure a year?
in daylights, in sunsets
in midnights, in
cups
of coffee
in inches, in miles
in laughter, in strife
in
525600
minutes
how do you measure a year in life?
how about
love?
525600 journeys to plan
525600 minutes
how do you measure
the
life
of a woman or a man
in truth that she learns
or in
times
that he cried
in bridges he burned
or the way that she dies
its
time now to sing out
though the story never ends
lets
celebrate
remember a year in the life of friends
remember the love.
What the heck...
1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome and nice and heterosexual men
are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice
men, have no mercy.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice
with money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our
money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice &
somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are not
beautiful enough.
9. The men who are think we are beautiful, that are
heterosexual, somewhat nice & have money are
cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome
somewhat nice & have some money & thank God
are heterosexual, are shy, and never make the first
move!!!
11. The men who never make the first move,
automatically lose interest in us when we take the
initiative.
NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN??
Men are like a fine wine. They are start out like
grapes, and its our job to stomp on them & keep
them in the dark until they mature into something
you'd like to have dinner with.
Smart women who need a laugh and to the guyz to
think can handle it.
LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH..
Thankful
Oh yeah my grieving time is over hahaha.. as if someone died... not someone but something... the light i kept burning for who knows how long is finally dying.. just like our office plant.. i forgot to water it for one week i think and now it's dying well just some of the stalks are still fighting to live and exist in our crazy, noisy and always chaotic world... how i wish it would just die so i can throw it out and buy a new one... well that's what i'm feeling right now.. that something inside me died or is slowly dying... main reason: neglect.. insensitivity, pride and insecurity...anyway that's beside the point...
I am thankful... thankful that in this crazy world that i live in i have lots of friends... people who can shout at me and make me cry but i still understand that they are just concerned, they want what's best.. it's ironic that they tell me things i actually listen to hahaha... they say that if you have 5 people you can consider your friends you are blessed, you can die happy and you can say that you have lived your life... friends come and go but these women are special to me, i seldom see them, like twice or thrice a year but i know that whatever storm i'm gonna go through they are going to be there for me... this past week was a proof of how lucky i am i have them... that i have someone i can pour my heart to and they'll listen then scold me hahaha for all the stupid things i have done hahaha... i'm thankful they are there to talk to for sad, bad, mad and glad hehehe..
anyway i had a very wonderful time with apple, che and daisy this weekend.. it was kinda an all girls weekend this weekend... i think the guys were starting to be girls too hahah... nah we just didn't care if they heard much of what we were talking about, we just babbled like there was just us.. thanks guys...wish we could do this next week again... and every other week lol haha.. yeah may bantay na d na pwede heheh..
next week i'm gonna go and visit tes again... can't get enough of you baby hahaha... i'm in a partying mode and we are gonna rock san francisco hehehe... hopefully apple, che and daisy will be with us too hahaha..
these are ollie's angels hehehe... apple, tes and anna.. i'm still alive after the weekend, thanks guys...
APPLE: best friend since HS. it's been what 12 years dang were old hahaha.. it feels like forever hahah...
TES: friend since i came to IFCA best friend when I came here.. it was a long time coming huh but I'm glad we became best friends here..
ANNA: known her for what 4 years.. best friend for 3... kung klan d ka na nagbu-bus saka naman tayo naging close hahaha... thanks sister....
love you guys...
Officially Missing You - Tamia
[Verse One]
All I hear is raindrops
Falling on the rooftop
Oh baby tell me why'd you have to go
Cause this pain I feel
It wont go away
And today I'm officially missing you
I thought that from this heartache
I could escape
But I fronted long enough to know
There ain't no way
And today
I'm officially missing you
[Chorus]
Oh can't nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do
Hey baby say it stays on my mind
And I, I'm officially
[Verse Two]
All I do is lay around
Two ears full tears
From looking at your face on the wall
Just a week ago you were my baby
Now I don't even know you at all
I don't know you at all
Well I wish that you would call me right now
So that I could get through to you somehow
But I guess it's safe to say baby safe to say
That I'm officially missing you
[Chorus]
[Bridge]
Well I thought I could just get over you baby
But I see that's something I just can't do
From the way you would hold me
To the sweet things you told me
I just can't find a way
To let go of you
[Chorus]
It official
You know that I'm missing you
Yeah yes
All I hear is raindrops
And I'm officially missing you
Sunday, June 26, 2005
Here I Am -Air Supply
Here I am
Playing with those memories again
And just when I thought time had set me free
Those thoughts of you keep taunting me
Holding you,
A feeling I never outgrew
Though, each and every part of me has tried
Only you can fill that space inside
So there's no sense pretending,
My heart it's not mending
Just when I thought I was over you
And just when I thought I could stand on my own
Oh, baby, those memories come crashing through
And I just can't go on without you
On my own,
I've tried to make the best of it alone
I've done everything I can to ease the pain,
But only you can stop the rain
I just can't live without you,
I miss everything about you
Just when I thought I was over you
And just when I thought I could stand on my own
Oh, baby, those memories come crashing through
And I just can't go on without, go on without,
It's just no good without you…
(Just when I thought I was over you)
Without you…
(Just when I thought I could stand on my own)
Without you…
(Just when I thought I was over you)
Without you…
(Just when I thought I could stand on my own)
Without you…